Creating positive behavior in preschoolers can be a challenge for any parent. There are a number of strategies that can promote positive behavior in preschoolers. Together, these strategies and preschool activities can create a positive and constructive environment in which preschoolers can thrive.

Positive reinforcement :

Positive reinforcement is a form of reinforcement that rewards a behavior in order to increase the likelihood of that behavior being repeated. For example, if a child cleans up their toys after being asked, they may be rewarded with praise or a small treat. This will help the child to understand that cleaning up their toys is the desired behavior.

Modeling desired behaviors:

Another way to promote positive behavior is by modeling desired behaviors. Children learn best by observing and imitating the behavior of others. Therefore, it is important for adults to model desired behaviors, such as sharing, taking turns, and using kind words.


Providing children with choices can also promote positive behavior. For example, offering a Preschool age child the choice to either clean up their toys or read a book before bedtime gives the child some control over their environment and helps them to feel more capable and independent.

Lead by Example:

Parents and caregivers should lead by example when trying to promote positive behavior in children. If adults model desired behaviors, such as patience, respect, and empathy, children are more likely to imitate these behaviors.

Create a Positive Environment:

Creating a positive environment is another key way to promote positive behavior in children. A positive environment is one that is warm, supportive, and inviting. It is important to provide praise and encouragement for desired behavior, while also maintaining reasonable expectations.


When a child exhibits the desired behavior, it is important to praise them. Praising helps children to feel good about themselves and encourages them to continue exhibiting the desired behavior.


Encouraging words can also help promote positive behavior in children. For example, telling a child “I know you can do it!” when they are struggling with a task can give them the motivation and confidence they need to keep trying.

Maintaining reasonable expectations:

It is important to maintain reasonable expectations when trying to promote positive behavior in children. If expectations are too high, children may feel discouraged and frustrated. On the other hand, if expectations are too low, children may become bored or apathetic.


Sharing is another important way to promote positive behavior in children. Sharing helps children to develop a sense of cooperation and concern for others. It also teaches children the importance of taking turns and sharing resources.

Taking turns:

Taking turns is an important skill for children to learn. It helps them to develop patience and understand that everyone deserves a turn. Taking turns also teaches children how to share resources and be fair.

Using kind words:

Using kind words is a great way to promote positive behavior in children. Kind words show children that they are valued and appreciated. They also help children to feel good about themselves and encourage them to be kind to others.


Redirecting is a great way to deal with negative behavior in children. Redirecting involves redirecting a child’s attention to a more positive activity. For example, if a child is throwing a tantrum, the adult can redirect their attention to another activity, such as singing a song or reading a book.

It is important to remember that every child is different and that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to promoting positive behavior. However, the tips and strategies outlined above by Junior DPS can be a great starting point for parents and caregivers who are looking for ways to encourage positive behavior in children.

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